About Me

My name is Deflamer and I am a 41 year old white male from Casas Adobes, Arizona! I recently moved to New York after a painful divorce from my wife Claire, who took both of our children, John Junior and Adam :( Now I'm in the big apple trying to make a new life for myself by fufilling my life-long dream of becoming a NYC Firefighter! This is my blog, thanks for visiting. - The De-Flamer!